you don't need to push a river, it flows on its own.

''A mind that is seeking is not a passionate mind and to come upon love without seeking it, is the only way to find it - to come upon it unknowingly and not as the result of any effort or experience. Such a love, you will find, is not of time; such a love is both personal and impersonal, is both the one and the many. Like a flower that has perfume you can smell it or pass it by. That flower is for everybody and for the one who takes trouble to breathe it deeply and look at it with delight. Whether one is very near in the garden, or very far away, it is the same to the flower because it is full of that perfume and therefore it is sharing with everybody.'' - j krishnamurti.

a big thank you as usual to fred, my teacher, whose teacher is j. krishnamurti. the above paragraph reinforced what we talked about yesterday.

for those interested, you may like to go to www.jkrishnamurti.org and read more.